Dear Charlie, I enjoyed your essay. It is a hoot. I am a 74 year-old man married to the same woman now for 48 years so I don’t date. But I have some good experience in dealing with a tall woman. Indiana Luna was one of the women I danced the Argentine tango (I am Argentine) some 15 years ago when I was learning to dance it. I gave up taking my wife because we fought blaming each other for all sorts of missteps. Indiana Luna was close to 6 ft and wore tight black dresses with a slit on the side. At best I was an efficient dancer. When I danced with her nobody would notice me as all eyes were on her. This was good. But since Argentine tango by its definition means you have to be tight with your partner I found that the only way I could do this with her was to lean my head on her chest!