I soundly approve what you wrote. Perhaps you might want to read about Raymond Chandler who had a wife many years older than he was in that past century.
I am a 77 year-old obsolete, redundant, retired and inconsequential magazine photographer and writer. I photographed women draped and undraped from the late 70s and I am still doing it. My wife is 75 and I am 77. I like that lots. My interest in taking pictures of women now is of women who are over 40 or 50 or more (you are much too young!). Sit tight and you will eventually find that person who will love you, like you and be attracted to you as you are.